Does this INTJ crush show interest or am I overthinking?
I (INFJ) have a long-standing crush on an INTJ I met through alumni/scholarship events. Timeline in short: *Followed each other on social media, he occasionally liked my posts, rarely viewed my stories. *First event (Feb): we barely interacted but he hugged me as a greeting — felt significant. Didn't even get to introduce ourselves properly, I just knew of him through mutual friends. That night, he added me on LinkedIn (within an hour after the event). *Second event (Nov): same space, tried to make eye contact and smile, but he didn’t acknowledge me. Minimal interaction. I got busy because it was a networking event, but I really wanted to converse with him to see if we could connect. *Social media: mostly active on LinkedIn, reactivated IG recently but no meaningful engagement. I know INTJs are deliberate and cautious, but I’m confused — is he interested or am I reading too much into subtle cues? - tiredgeneral From a pragmatic standpoint, I'd say you're underthinking by d...